I find that in relationships with women you don't have to worry from day to day, you know, is he out with somebody else? Is he going to leave me, is he going to get violent with me? I find that women are much more in tune with their emotions and much more ready to offer up information on how they feel.

With a man I was afraid. With a woman, I just automatically am safe.

Diseases are definitely a factor, but I have to say that I don't really put too much thought into it. I mean, the way I figure it is I'm living a wonderful life, I've had a wonderful life. I'm sure I have a lot ahead of me. At whatever time I go out of this world, you know, is the time that I am meant to come out of this world.

They say the only real way to be totally careful is abstinence, and that is obviously not a part of my life.

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