Where I'm at right now is I do have my desire for women and I've also have desires for men. It's not a matter of sex, it's a matter of personality. It's not your body, it's not your eyes or your hair, whatever. It's who you are inside. If you can communicate, and be open, and be able to come to terms with your emotions and express those openly and I find you attractive, then hell, yeah, I'll be with you.

When I was 14, I started having dreams about females, and at first I was kind of like, you know, grossed out. You know, don't eat the chicken.

In Junior High School I remember hating a lot of girls, pretty girls, for no reason. I'd just look at them, think that they were beautiful and then basically hate myself and them, I guess, for feeling that way . Basically I was afraid of it.

Because it would cause turmoil in my life, and I already have enough crap going on, you know, I can't be gay, too, on top of it all. It's like, no, no, this isn't happening.

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